Now the kind of chore I prefer would be something like, say, cleaning the kitchen. I can walk in, begin cleaning, and 30 minutes later have clear counters and floors and walk out hearing the hum of the dishwasher and feeling a sense of accomplishment. Done.
For several years I just didn't weed. Mark did all of the weeding. And then last year when Mark had his accident, and injured his hands, I had to do it. I wouldn't say it was my favorite chore, but I readied, planted, and weeded the garden, and things grew! And I derived a bit of satisfaction knowing that I had done it.
Mark's hands are better this year, so I could let him do it all, but when the kids are in the yard (as they frequently are this time of year), it makes sense that I'd do something.
Knowing that I like to have that sense of a job completed, I've finally figured out a system that works for me. I sat down and listed all of our outside chores, and then broke them up into manageable chunks and divided them up on different days of the week. I came up with this:
Outdoor Chores
Monday
chickens: food and water
garbage out
recycling out
weed dahlias and strawberries
water gardens
Tuesday
chickens: food and water
garbage out
slug bait
weed herb garden and back beds (pumpkins, squash, ella’s flowers)
water gardens
Wednesday
chickens: food and water
garbage out
weed front flower gardens and walkway
water gardens
Thursday
chickens: food and water
garbage out
mow lawn
weed back half of vegetable garden (sunflowers, corn, and beans)
water gardens
Friday
chickens: food and water
garbage out
weed front half of vegetable garden (carrots, lettuces, tomatoes, etc)
water gardens
Saturday
chickens: food and water
garbage out
miscellaneous weeding (hydrangea bush, beneath apple trees, etc)
clean chicken coop
water gardens
This has helped tremendously. Now that I've broken the weeding into smaller jobs, I don't mind it so much. And I know that if I miss a Monday, next Monday will come around soon enough and it's still being done more regularly than it was before. And best of all, when Mark gets home in the evenings, he can just rest and play and doesn't have to worry about the weeding.
Great job! It always helps to have a plan. I'm sure your husband appreciates you having this done so he doesn't have to worry about it.
ReplyDeleteI so could have written your post. It is all freash in my mind....because I finally took the plunge this week. We moved in May to a new house. The gardens are awesome but no one has weeded them in a season or two. It feels overwhelming AND I don't like doing something that only comes back next week. But I choose a spot and just started working. So buy the time I get to the end I can go back to where I started :o)
ReplyDeleteHey I stumbled on you from the baker's dozen - My daughter is from Guatemala too!!! Annabelle turned 3 in February ~ Yeah! I love adoption stories!
ReplyDeleteAnd let me just say, that the work you are doing sure does show! Your yard is amazing! I have really enjoyed seeing all the fruit of your and Mark's labor. Its inspiring.
ReplyDeleteLove amy
I feel the same way about weeding, so I really love your schedule that keeps it "do-able", and not too overwhelming!
ReplyDeleteWhat a woman! ;)
Good for you! I remember when Selena was about 6 months old, and I felt like I was drowning in housework. I made myself a list similar to yours, and it changed everything! I don't really have to weed in our current house because its a townhome and it is done for us, but I have other tasks that I don't love :-) Thanks for sharing this.
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